Welcome to What to Say and How to Say It, the podcast that helps you fix your marriage with wisdom and grace. I'm Shy Lewis, here with Nina Roesner, and today we're diving into the Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style—what it looks like, why it happens, and how to respond effectively in a Christian marriage. 🔎 In this episode, we cover: What dismissive avoidant behavior looks like in a relationship How to communicate clearly and calmly without triggering shutdown Why managing your emotions is key to connection How to set boundaries and follow through—without issuing ultimatums Real-life tips to avoid chasing, increase your partner’s capacity, and create safe space If you're tired of walking on eggshells, visit greaterimpactwise.org to your FREE PDF: "Five Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells" and take the free marriage assessment. This episode is for any Christian husband or wife who wants to move from conflict to connection, especially when emotional shutdowns, avoidance, or stonewalling get in the way. 💬 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs encouragement and clarity in their marriage journey. #ChristianMarriage #AttachmentTheory #MarriagePodcast #DismissiveAvoidant #RelationshipAdvice #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageCommunication #WhatToSayAndHowToSayIt n2w66