Ep. 41 Putting Others First at Your Own Expense? Learn to Say 'Yes' to Yourself. 473y15

Send us a text After years of saying yes to everyone and everything, I hit a breaking point in nursing school that forever changed my perspective on people-pleasing. The revelation that my behavior was a trauma response rooted in the fear of rejection was both eye-opening and transformative. me as I unravel the emotional toll of people-pleasing, from the sleepless nights filled with anxiety to the resentment that quietly builds when we neglect our own needs for the sake of others. This episode is not just a recount of struggles but a guide to reclaiming your worth and well-being by learning how to set boundaries without guilt. Imagine shifting from being the dependable go-to person to someone who prioritizes personal desires and capacities. We'll explore how deeply ingrained patterns, often developed in environments where love and approval were conditional, can impact every aspect of life—from work to personal relationships. As the Empowerment Goddess and Your Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach, I offer practical steps to help you move from automatic people-pleasing to honoring your true self. Learn how to practice the pause before responding and engage in inner dialogues that align with your authentic needs. It's time to break free from the cycle and step into a more fulfilling, authentic life. • Understanding the impact of conditional love and approval • Recognizing the cycle of saying yes and its consequences • The emotional exhaustion tied to people-pleasing patterns • Exploring the connection between trauma and people-pleasing • Practical strategies for breaking the habit of people-pleasing • Importance of practicing the pause for mindful responses • Checking one's inner dialogue to combat guilt • Starting with small boundary-setting actions • Encouragement to challenge habitual responses • Affirmation that unlearning people-pleasing is possible through self-comion the show “You are not alone, and you are enough. When times get tough, pray, listen and follow through. God loves you and trust me when I say he is not your trauma.” ~Krystal Jae “Believe in all that you are and know that you have this inner power that is greater than any obstacle.” ~Krystal Jae Leave a Review Share Book Your Coaching Session https://www.krystaljae.com/book-online the 6-month Breakthrough to Authenticity Program www.krystaljae.com/breakthrough Overcome Suffering In Silence Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/breakthroughtoauthenticity 4c4i34