Why You Should Stop Trying to Fix Yourself, by Jonathan H. Westover PhD 4m2x16

Abstract: This article challenges the culture of perfectionism that permeates personal development and organizational leadership, arguing instead for acceptance of human limitations. Drawing on psychological research, it demonstrates how striving for flawless performance activates harmful stress responses and contradicts our inherent imperfections. The article proposes that leaders should foster environments where imperfection is normalized through vulnerability, strength-focused development, and viewing mistakes as learning opportunities. Case studies from companies like Patagonia and Whole Foods illustrate how embracing human limitations rather than demanding perfection leads to greater innovation, well-being, and employee retention. By offering practical strategies for leaders to assess perfectionist tendencies and cultivate self-comion, the article presents a compelling alternative to the exhausting cycle of constant self-improvement—one founded on acceptance rather than the futile pursuit of fixing ourselves. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices b1x2d