On Episode 5 we discuss the process of qualifying and disqualifying what you're looking for in order to find a partner, lover, friend, or even a healthy work environment! We share how, even though we were on opposite sides of the country, we were independently developing our own systems for choosing. We touch on perhaps the least talked about part of this process - the refining who WE ARE in order to become the type of human another partner is looking for!   10/26/22 is the THIRD anniversary of our first date in San Diego, California. For the first time, we are sharing our cheeky first messages inside the MATCH app, our first phone call that felt so comfortable, and the magical moment we met where it felt like we'd known each other our whole lives. What was supposed to be a "one night stand" turned into a whole lot more. What happens when an "eligible divorcee" from Virginia meets a Californian who's "looking for a female who's a driver." You'll have to watch or listen to find out.   Like what you hear? You can ensure this podcast continues by ing us financially: https://anchor.fm/partnership.podcast/  Reminder: The opinions expressed on this podcast are just that - opinions. We invite you to take what you like and leave the rest. This is not meant to be a “how-to” podcast but rather a “how they” podcast. Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren would love to help you develop your own process of qualifying and disqualifying that which you WANT. Click here to book a Free 15-Minute Consult: https://sexedforyou.as.me/freeconsult   Not ready to take the jump into sexuality education? Then check out Lauren's brand new monthly hip program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself! https://sexedforyou.com/hemlock   Want to make your own podcast? We cannot recommend Anchor enough. Visit www.anchor.fm to launch your podcast today. 8505z