'Small Goals Are NOT Motivating': How Cara Brookins Built a House to Save Her Family 4c5k6b

02/04/2025

In this inspiring episode of The Rich Life Recipe, host Jason Allan Scott and co-host Alicia...

In this inspiring episode of The Rich Life Recipe, host Jason Allan Scott and co-host Alicia Schiro welcome Cara Brookins, the remarkable woman who built a 3,500-square-foot house with her four children using only YouTube tutorials.
Episode Highlights: Building a House with YouTube Cara shares how she and her children undertook the seemingly impossible task of building a 3,500-square-foot, five-bedroom home from scratch
She explains how YouTube in 2007 (pre-smartphone era) served as their guide, requiring them to watch videos, take notes, and apply what they learned at the construction site
The project began out of desperation after escaping domestic violence, with limited finances and a desire to rebuild their family's confidence
The Psychology of Team Building Cara reveals how the construction project created "the perfect neurological environment for team bonding" through: Problem-solving together (releases oxytocin)
Physical activity (releases oxytocin)
Hand-to-hand work (releases oxytocin)
Meeting deadlines (releases dopamine)

She describes how the project transformed her traumatized family into a close-knit team
Embracing Risk and Big Goals Cara explains her controversial belief that "big goals are easier to reach than small goals"
She shares why the "baby steps" approach often fails to create meaningful change
Her approach to overcoming fear: asking "What's your worst case scenario?" and being willing to live with the answer
Creating Tangible Connections Cara emphasizes the importance of hands-on projects for family bonding
She discusses the psychological impact of creating something physical versus digital work
The "IKEA effect" - we value things 60% higher when we've assembled them ourselves
Lessons for Success The importance of preparation for success - Cara's story went viral (2 billion media impressions in 12 months) before she was ready
Why we should dream bigger and prepare our platforms for success
How taking risks sooner can transform your life
Cara's Rich Life Recipe: Set big, audacious goals with tight deadlines
Create tangible representations of your goals
Face your fears by asking "What's the worst case scenario?"
Prioritize hands-on projects with loved ones
Listen deeply to understand others' fears
Cara's story proves that ordinary people can accomplish extraordinary things when they're willing to take risks, embrace discomfort, and work together toward a seemingly impossible goal.